A Healthy, Fit Family: When Kids Won’t Eat What You Make

Do you have  a finicky eater in your household? I do and it can be really be frustrating especially when you’re trying to get them to eat something that isn’t chicken nuggets or macaroni & cheese – If you’re kids are like mine, then they’re just not going to eat most of what you put in front of them.  Children rely on their sense of sight and smell before they will even try to taste something. So if it looks funny or smells funky . – Good Luck, Mom! It’s not likely to happen anytime soon.

Most nights I relent and just give in to the chicken & mac dinner but I worry that the kids might not be  receiving adequate nutrition from his steady diet.  So, even though I throw in a yummy p b & j every so often I still think of creative ways to get the vitamins and minerals they need into their diet.

Here are few ways that I handle the meal-time dilemma:

Variation of The Same – In the case of a child who only eats a certain thing, like hot dogs, which are not the healthiest of foods, try substituting regular hot dogs with healthier low fat hot dogs made form turkey. The taste may be a little different at first, but visually they look the same as the others. So if they must eat them, at least this version is better for them. Try this with other foods as well, if all your child will eat is pasta, go for the whole wheat pasta’s that have Omega 3 and flaxseed in them, they will get more vitamins and minerals and less wasted calories.

Make Food Fun – The best way to get your child to eat healthier meals is to make the food fun for them to eat. By having him or her help you make their food and creating a fun game out of it, your child will be more interested in actually trying the food they created. You could also try making tasting new foods a fun game; do a blind taste test of vegetables and fruits, and include a sibling or friend to join along. If the child sees someone else wiling to try the foods, they will be more likely to do the same.

Give Them Their Own Space – Provide a low shelf or cupboard for your child to place their foods. Take them to the grocery store and help them pick out healthier versions of their favorite foods and allow them to put away their groceries in their own special place. They will feel like they have control over what choices they have and are more likely to eat the healthier versions because they helped choose them.

One At a Time – Incorporating a new food at each meal is the best way to coax your child into trying something new. Add a few pieces of a vegetable that they have never tried to the plate, they may just surprise you in trying it. Just don’t focus on that food, just place it on the plate and pretend like they already like it. Never force a child to clean their plate; the added pressure will have them refusing right off the bat. Let them make the decision about what they want to eat.

The main issue with a finicky child is making sure they get the adequate vitamins needed to grow strong and healthy. It is recommended to incorporate into their schedule a multi-vitamin so they get the vitamins they are lacking from food.

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Writing the Perfect Christmas Letter

I don’t know about you, but I always look forward to receiving Christmas letters from family and friends during the holiday season. Often it is the only news you receive from some of them throughout the year.

I started sending out our family Christmas letter the year after I got married. Some adult children are content to share their family news in a letter from their parents, but I wanted to start our own family tradition with our own annual Christmas letter.

Sitting down to write a letter can be an intimidating task. It’s easy to put off until the last minute if you’re overwhelmed with the idea of trying to figure out what to say. There are several things to take into consideration when writing your own family Christmas letter.

Some people get very creative with their Christmas letters. There are a variety of formats to choose from. You can buy holiday printer paper at any office supply store. Just print out your letter on the decorated paper, and you’re all set to go. If you’re printing out a lot of letters and don’t want to spend as much on the paper, you can also just choose colored paper with no design…red or green paper look festive all on their own with your letter printed on them. You can also copy your letter on to the paper with a copy machine instead of printing each one on your printer. If you are into rubber stamping, you could also hand-decorate your letters after you print them.

Or, you can go paper-less! You can email your letter to family and friends if they have Internet access. This would allow you to insert pictures into your letter and not worry about having to print them. Some families have web sites set up to post family pictures and happenings. This would also be a great place to post your Christmas letter for all to see.

So what should you write in your letter? Keeping things short and to the point is definitely a fine art. I try to keep my letters to a page, if possible, a page and a half at the most. It also depends on how large your family is. The point is not to lose the reader’s interest with too many pages to read.

I start my letters out with a greeting, and then a paragraph or two of major family happenings, like births, deaths, weddings, etc. This is also a good place to briefly describe any favorite family vacations for the year. I then write a short paragraph about each family member to get everyone up to date about who just got their driver’s license, braces on or off, started their first job, etc. I just try to hit on the major milestones that people would be interested in knowing about.

You’ll find that once you sit down to start your letter that the words will just start flowing and you’ll be done with it in no time. Who knows better what happened in your family this year than you? It’s also a good idea to let someone else read it before you send it out to make sure you got your facts straight. Especially about your kids! That could definitely come back to haunt you later.

Try to send your letters and cards out during the first week of December. I love getting letters and cards at the beginning of the season. Hearing from family and friends is a great way to get into the holiday spirit, and once you have those letters out the door your time is freed up for other important tasks.

Make sure you keep a copy of your Christmas letter for yourself. I place a copy of mine in a binder in which I keep all of the holiday letters I receive. Someday this will be a wonderful keepsake for my children and grandchildren.

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Rachel Paxton is a freelance writer and mom who is the author of What’s for Dinner?, an e-cookbook containing more than 250 quick easy dinner ideas. For more recipes, organizing tips, home decorating, crafts, holiday hints, and more, visit Creative Homemaking at www.creativehomemaking.com.

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