Make Mother’s Day Special – Real Treasures That Touch The Heart

Mother’s Day is always a bit difficult for me.  My Mom has been gone for some years now, and although I miss her every day, Mother’s Day is especially bittersweet.

But, I don’t want this post to be all weepy!  I did enough of that over on my own blog, RemarkableWrinklies.com.

What I really want to do is inspire families to take time to create wonderful memories together.  These memories will become your treasures as the years go by.

So, how do you create memories to treasure?

Since I have the advantage of experience that young Moms don’t have, yet, I’ll share a few feelings about celebrating Mother’s Day from my own perspective.  Please remember… this is from my own history.  Your family’s traditions may be very different.

  • Start the day early with a phone call.  Mothers wake up thinking about Mother’s Day.  Call first thing in the morning to say Happy Mother’s Day, even if you’re getting together later in the day.
  • Give Mom a card.  These cards become keepsakes beyond value.  Young children should ALWAYS make a homemade card.  This little piece of paper will touch Mom’s heart forever.
  • Breakfast in bed is always a winner.  I know… it’s messy, but it’s so sweet.  Make it super simple.  Even a cup of juice and a bowl of cereal makes Mommy get all mushy and teary-eyed when served with those tiny, precious hands.
  • Home-cooked meal versus dinner out is a toss-up.  For a very busy Mom, a quiet dinner at home, one which she doesn’t have to cook, can be a treat.  However, for a Mom who is anxious to get out of the house and be pampered, dinner out may be perfect.  It all depends on the situation.  I’ve enjoyed both.  But, remember, it’s all about creating the moments.
  • Pick wildflowers. I know the florists won’t like this, but the most endearing memories I have of Mother’s Day are those little bouquets of dandelions presented to me by my daughter’s little hand.  There is no way a big bouquet of hot-house roses can beat that.
  • Don’t spend money!  Moms really dislike seeing their children “wasting” money on them. Make your own cards and gifts whenever possible.
  • Do spend time with Mom.  Creating memories that you’ll both treasure the rest of your lives is what makes Mother’s Day special.  What does your Mom enjoy doing?  Join her in the garden, on a walk or bike ride. Go fishing.  Go swimming.  Go to a movie.  Talk on the phone if you can’t be there, but more importantly, listen.  You may learn something about your Mom that will surprise and delight you.

You get the idea.  Make Mother’s Day all about the simple things, the things your Mother will cherish, and that will become your “treasures” years from now.

I hope you all have a very Happy Mother’s Day and that you become rich with treasured memories!

Thanks for reading!

Patti Winker
www.RemarkableWrinklies.com

p.s.  Want to explore why we need to keep connecting with each generation?  Read my post about sharing family stories by clicking here:  Why Connections With Generations Matter Now – Share Your Family Stories

 

 

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Happy Mother’s Day – Gifts Of Love

I was watching television this weekend and heard a business analyst talk about the increased prices in necessities like gas at the pump and food on the table.  He further explored the possibility that this tight economy with its rising prices is forcing people to spend less money on Mom this Mother’s Day.

“How sad!” the anchors lamented.

“Who cares?” I say.

Mother’s Day was never about the monetary value of any present I’ve received.  No, the gifts I receive are about the love that went into the gift.  No matter what I receive on that special day, I know it’s meant to show love and appreciation for me, and for what I do throughout the year.

My favorite Mother’s Day gifts are the homemade cards or special drawings my dear daughter so carefully prepares. I have a drawer filled with those, plus the many macaroni necklaces along with a beautiful array of gold-painted jewelry boxes. Then there are the tiny flower gardens and mini terrariums crafted with those tiny hands.

When a child spends precious time on these gifts, and presents them to Mom with such pride on Mother’s Day, well, that’s what it’s all about.

An expensive bouquet of flowers is gone in a week’s time.  I can buy the things I need for the home.  I can pick out jewelry pieces from a store if I want something.

If we turn expensive gifts into expressions of love, we are missing something very valuable – especially on Mother’s Day.

Little gestures of love have real meaning. Digging into a tight budget to buy Mom something on Mother’s Day won’t ever bring the kind of tears to her eyes as a pretty little card drawn in crayon or the funny little necklace or jewelry box crafted out of macaroni, beads, buttons, and yarn.

Many of us simply don’t have the kind of money it takes to give Mom flowers, a gift, and a dinner out.  It’s okay.  It doesn’t have to be sad.  Rejoice in your time together on this day created just to celebrate our mothers.  Take time to say “I love you, Mom.”  Maybe expensive gifts should disappear from this day entirely.  Maybe we would all be better off remembering that the simple expressions of love are the best expressions of love.

Happy Mother’s Day!

With warm regards,

Susanne – The Hillbilly Housewife

p.s.  Come visit me at www.HillbillyHousewife.com to find all sorts of fun and frugal ideas for the home, garden, and for gifts, too!  Here are a couple ideas to get you thinking about what Mom would appreciate on her special day.  Click on to take a look:  Frugal Mother’s Day Gift Ideas

p.p.s.  If Mom is a fan of fancy coffee, here are links to a few of my favorite homemade mixes that make beautiful gifts, too.  Click on and take a look at these recipes:  Cafe Latte -     Bavarian Mint Cafe -    Mocha Espresso Mix

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Strawberry Chocolate Chip Shortcake

Mother’s Day is Sunday, May 9th. If you are looking for a new recipe to bake for your special mom or to serve your family on Mother’s Day you might like Strawberry Chocolate Chip Shortcake. I found this recipe in the SWEET IDEAS eNewsletter: A Sweet Salute to Mothers! from Hersheys Kitchens. I adapted the recipe to use Watkins products which should only improve the flavor.

1 cup sugar, divided
1/2 cup (1 stick) butter or margarine, softened
1 egg
2 teaspoons Watkins Vanilla Extract, divided
1-1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1/2 teaspoon Watkins Baking Powder
1 cup HERSHEY’S Mini Chips Semi-Sweet Chocolate, HERSHEY’S SPECIAL DARK Chocolate Chips or HERSHEY’S Semi-Sweet Chocolate Chips, divided
1 container (16 oz.) dairy sour cream
2 eggs
2 cups frozen non-dairy whipped topping, thawed
Fresh strawberries, rinsed and halved

1. Heat oven to 350°F. Grease 9-inch springform pan.

2. Beat 1/2 cup sugar and butter in large bowl. Add 1 egg and 1 teaspoon vanilla; beat until creamy. Gradually add flour and baking powder, beating until smooth; stir in 1/2 cup small chocolate chips. Press mixture onto bottom of prepared pan.

3. Stir together sour cream, remaining 1/2 cup sugar, remaining 2 eggs and remaining 1 teaspoon vanilla in medium bowl; stir in remaining 1/2 cup small chocolate chips. Pour over mixture in pan.

4. Bake 50 to 55 minutes until almost set and edges are lightly browned. Cool completely on wire rack; remove side of pan. Spread whipped topping over top. Cover; refrigerate. Just before serving, arrange strawberry halves on top of cake; garnish as desired. Cover; refrigerate leftover dessert. 12 servings.

Eleisia
http://www.watkinsonline.com/eleisiawhitney

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Green Mother’s Day Gifts

Top eco-tips for Mother’s Day

1. Don’t assume you know what mom wants to do or as a gift. She may prefer a picnic over brunch in a fancy restaurant.

2. When buying gifts, think locally made.

3. Avoid using wrapping paper. Substitute fabric wraps you make yourself from scarves or other fabric you have on hand, or purchase from a mom-owned company like Bobowrap. These can be used over and over again.

4. Give the gift of yourself. Whatever you can do for mom most certainly will be appreciated whether it’s washing her car, cleaning her gutters, or sorting and organizing old photos. Find something you can do that costs nothing but your time. Repeat once a month for a year!

Top eco-picks for Mother’s Day

1. Many moms appreciate receiving gifts that give. Give her a gift card from www.tisbest.com and she can donate to any of more than 300 non-profits.

2. Organic flowers are best for mom and the planet. Order from a local farm or online from www.OrganicBouquet.com

3. If you don’t have a store nearby that offers sustainable gifts, try any of these:

About the authors:

Lynn Colwell and Corey Colwell-Lipson are mother and daughter and co-authors of Celebrate Green! Creating Eco-Savvy Holidays, Celebrations and Traditions for the Whole Family, available at www.CelebrateGreen.net

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Muffins for Mother’s Day – Lemon Raspberry Muffins and Chocolate Chip Muffins and Whole Wheat Applesauce Muffins

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Lemon Raspberry Muffins
1 lemon
1/2 cup sugar
1 cup nonfat buttermilk 
1/3 cup canola oil
1 large egg
1 teaspoon Watkins Vanilla Extract
1 cup white whole-wheat flour or whole-wheat pastry flour1 cup all-purpose flour
2 teaspoons Watkins Baking Powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/4 teaspoon salt
1 1/2 cups fresh or frozen (not thawed) raspberries

TIP
No buttermilk? Add 1 tablespoon lemon juice to a one-cup measuring cup and add milk to make one cup. Mix.

Shopping Tip
White whole-wheat flour, made from a special variety of white wheat, is light in color and flavor but has the same nutritional properties as regular whole wheat. Whole-wheat pastry flour can be used as a substitute here. Both can be found in the natural-foods section of the supermarket or online.

Make Ahead Tip
Wrap each in plastic and freeze in a freezer bag for up to 1 month. To reheat, remove plastic, wrap muffin in a paper towel and microwave on High for 30 to 60 seconds.

Preheat oven to 400 degrees F.

Coat 12 large (1/2-cup) muffin cups with cooking spray or line with paper liners.

Use a vegetable peeler to remove the zest from the lemon in long strips. Combine the zest and sugar in a food processor; pulse until the zest is very finely chopped into the sugar. Add buttermilk, oil, egg and vanilla and pulse until blended.

Combine whole-wheat flour, all-purpose flour, baking powder, baking soda and salt in a large bowl. Add the buttermilk mixture and fold until almost blended. Gently fold in raspberries. Divide the batter among the muffin cups.

Bake the muffins until the edges and tops are golden, 20 to 25 minutes. Let cool in the pan for 5 minutes before turning out onto a wire rack. Serve warm.

Chocolate Chip Muffins

Watkins Cooking Spray
2 cups unbleached all-purpose flour (spoon into measuring cup and level top)
1 1/2 teaspoons Watkins Baking Powder
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon Watkins Ground Cinnamon
1/2 teaspoon Watksin Nutmeg
1/8 teaspoon salt
3/4 cup low-fat buttermilk
3/4 cup unsweetened applesauce
2/3 cup packed dark brown sugar
1 large egg
1 1/2 tablespoons canola oil
1 teaspoon Watkins Vanilla Extract
1/4 cup mini-chocolate chips

Position a rack in the center of the oven and preheat to 350 degrees F.

Lightly spray twelve 2 3/4 by 1 1/2-inch nonstick muffin cups with oil.

In a medium bowl, whisk the flour, baking powder, baking soda, cinnamon, nutmeg, and salt until well combined. Set aside.

In another medium bowl, using a handheld electric mixer set at high speed, beat the buttermilk, applesauce, brown sugar, egg, oil, and vanilla until frothy, about 2 minutes. Make a well in the center of the dry ingredients and pour in the buttermilk mixture. Using a spoon, mix just until moistened (there should be a few traces of flour remaining). Gently fold in the chocolate until the flour is incorporated. Do not overmix.

Divide the batter equally among the prepared muffin cups. Bake until the tops spring back when pressed gently in the center, about 20 minutes. Do not overbake. Cool in the pan on a wire cake rack for 10 minutes before removing from the cups. Serve warm or cool completely on the rack.

Whole Wheat Applesauce Muffins
I wanted something sweet that was healthier and contained some fiber so I chose this recipe.

1/4 cup oil
3/4 cup brown sugar
1 1/4 cups applesauce
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 1/2 cups whole wheat flour
1 teaspoon Watkins Cinnamon
1 cup raisins

Cream oil and sugar. Mix in applesauce and baking soda. Add flour and cinnamon, blending thoroughly. Stir in raisins.  Soak raisins in a little boiling water to soften before adding.

Spoon into muffin tin. Bake in preheated 375 degree oven for 20 minutes.  Makes 12 muffins.

Eleisia
http://www.watkinsonline.com/eleisiawhitney

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