For Valentine’s Day Give the Real Gift of Love AND It’s FREE

Guest Post By Susan Birmingham

Thinking of what to give your loved one for Valentine’s Day? Think back to when you first met. How did you feel when your first saw him? When did you know that you loved him? When did you know “he” was the one? What were the feelings you had? What thoughts were running through your mind? Let him know how you feel on the most celebrated “love” day, Valentine’s Day.

Once you have reminded yourself why you married him now give him the greatest gift – a love letter. Yes, write your special someone a love letter. All you need are your thoughts, memories, feelings, paper and pen. This is a gift from the heart and it is absolutely FREE, costs you nothing and gives you both everything.

Let him know what he does that curls your toes. Let him know how you feel when you think about him now. Tell him what he means to you in your life. Tell him all the things you may have never said but have thought and felt. Make this Valentine’s Day the best one you have ever had, that’s what love can and will do for you if you let it. So go ahead, throw caution to the wind, spill you guts and really let him know that he is your One and Only! Seal it with a kiss and give it to him with a hug. You are both going to reap the benefits!

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SusanSusan Birmingham is a trained coach from The Coaches Training Institute and works as a Relationship and Marriage Coach based in Long Beach California. Susan is also an expert in helping women give themselves the ultimate in self-care, building self-esteem. Even when you think you’ve got it she takes you to another level of awareness. She works with women from all walks of life helping them get on the right track to creating a Successful Marriage.

Susan broke the code and today she has the real credentials that count, married to her Ideal Mate, Jim, for over seventeen years they are more in love each day! She has mastered the Secrets of a Successful Marriage and Romantic Relationship. Today Susan describes herself as a woman, a coach, an entrepreneur, a wife and a lover of life!

Susan’s blog is www.esteemprinciple.com/blog and her website is www.esteemprinciple.com

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Free But Romantic Valentine’s Dates

Romantic Valentine's Day

Happy Valentine's Day

All you have to do is turn on the news for 5 minutes and odds are you’re going to hear about job losses and the economy. The recession has effected everyone and we’re all looking for ways to cut back expenses to make it though. That doesn’t mean you can’t have a fun, romantic Valentine’s day date – it just means you have to be creative!

Here are some great date ideas for Valentine’s using stuff you already have!  These free but romantic valentine’s dates are sure to please you and your hunny bunny.

1. Late Night Candlelight Picnic

To pull this one off you’ll need picnic food, a nice big blanket, pillows, some music and some candles.  After the kids are in bed, lay a soft blanket out on the living room floor with lots of pillows. If you have a fireplace or a “fireplace” DVD – you can use that to add to the ambiance. Find all the candles you can around the house and set them up around the living room, play some of your favorite music and turn out the lights for a romantic candlelight glow.  Enjoy your picnic, and whatever may follow! Make sure to spend a little time telling each other why you love each other.

2. A Walk in the Park

Where I live it’s still cold and snowy – but if you’re lucky enough to live in an area that is a little warmer, take time to go for a walk with your spouse! A local park or an area close by that has special meaning to you is a great choice. When my husband and I were dating, we used to taking the walking trails through the local park and then sit by the pond and talk for hours. For us, reliving that old tradition would be a fantastic, romantic way to spend an afternoon. If you have smaller children, enlist the help of a friend or family member to watch them while you are out. You may need to plan your date for the day before or after, but this will save you childcare costs. Perhaps you know another couple that would want to exchange sitting services?

3. An Old Movie Date

Dinner and a Movie is a pretty traditional date – one that can also cost a fortune once you add gas, tickets, snacks, dinner and a sitter. So, plan a movie night in. After the kids have gone to bed, set up the TV in your bedroom.  Pop your own popcorn and make some punch. Curl up in bed and watch an old movie you both love but haven’t pulled off the shelf in a while.  Combine this idea with the picnic idea for a complete dinner and a movie date!

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