I’ve Got It Together

Do you hope, wish, long to be the person who has “got it all together”.  You know those types they seem to be able to juggle the many roles that they have in life with such ease.  They seem to always have a smile on their face and a jump in their step.  Their crying baby, wrinkled clothes, and unruly preschooler don’t exist, because their children are perfectly behaved and they area always dressed to a T. 

Is this really real?  Is that even possible?  I don’t think so.  The appearance of “having it all together” may seem as real as day, but in reality they are most likely feeling inadequate in some capacity and are breaking their necks to seem perfect, just like you.

After all,  is this what you want to teach your children, that they have to be perfect, that they cannot slip up, make a mistake or have an off day?  I sure hope not, because that will be a pretty miserable life they’ll be forced to live.  Mistakes, after all, are a part of life and help us on our journey, teach us little lessons that aid us in our next steps.  Without those mistakes, most likely most of us would still be where we were, not miles ahead and much wiser.  So, allow your child to experience the results of their mistakes and the joy of learning from them.  Their lives will be better for it.

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The Special Bond

There’s just something about having a baby girl. I”m not exactly sure what it is, trust me I love my first born, a son, more than anything, but my daughter well she and I just have something special. Sure, she’s only 15 months old now, but already I know our relationship will be an important one in both of our lives. At least that is what I hope for, since I have that special relationship with my mom, and my mom has it with hers, and her mom had it with hers. It’s a generational thing that I hope will continue down the line.

Mom / Daughter RelationshipI can only imagine the memories we will share throughout the years. Right now, she merely loves to sit with me in the recliner right beside me as she drinks her morning sippy cup of milk, or cuddling in bed. Later, I”m sure it’ll be sitting with me as I put on my makeup, wanting some of her own as I used to with my mom, or sharing ice cream after a first date that ended less perfect than expected. Late night chats about her first love, wiping of tears when he breaks her heart, even proud moments like when she aces her history test or walks the aisle to accept Jesus as her Savior. All these things I look forward to, with anticipation.

What about you, do you have a relationship with your daughter that pulls at your heartstrings? Is this something you experienced as a child or something you are being sure to create for your daughter because it was something you lacked???

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