The Aloha Quilt: A Book Review

Aloha Quilt CoverI’m a big fan of Jennifer Chiaverini and her Elm Creek Quilts series. I’ve been known to quilt here and there (but certainly not as much as I would like to) and the thing I like about it most is the community feel of the activity; it tends to be more fun to work on a quilt with other people especially if you are making a quilt by hand.

Jennifer does an excellent job of showcasing the quilt craft as an art form as well as the women in her stories who create them. The thing I like about Jennifer’s books is that you never know which direction she’s going to take her next story. She likes to jump back and forth between eras (such as present day and the Civil War period) and she also changes which character she focuses on each time.

I’ve read all of the Elm Creek Series so far, so when I saw that she had a new book called The Aloha Quilt, (Amazon Link) I pre-ordered it. I was thrilled that it showed up just before I left for vacation to Ireland. I look forward to the main character’s struggle and how they address it. I love how the women join together to help the main character and I appreciate the insights as they find the solution.

This particular book revolves around Bonnie who is going through a nasty divorce and needs some relief. She heads to Hawaii to help a friend set up a quilt camp very similar to Elm Creek Quilts and tries to sort out her life and what she wants. Throw in a crazy soon-t0-be-ex-husband and you’ve got a pretty good, easy read.

Jennifer is a talented writer and I recommend this series if you like “chick books” or anything that revolves around crafting in general. Be sure to start with The Elm Creek Quilts Sampler which is the first three books in the series and you’ll be on your way (Amazon Link).

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Rules of Thumb: A Book Review

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I’m back on a business book kick and have some pretty good stuff I want to share with you. For now, let me introduce you to Alan Webber. If youhaven’t met him yet, I have to tell you; he’s a pretty fascinating guy with an interesting perspective on life. Among other notable things, Alan founded Fast Company (one of my favorite business-related magazines out there) and he’s had the opportunity to meet and work with some great people.

Alan has a habit of carrying around index cards and when something interesting happens or he hears something that he wants to remember, he jots it down on one of his cards. (Side note: I cannot tell you how much I LOVE this idea. And yes, I bought a pack – or two – of index cards as soon as I finished this book.) From those cards, Alan came up with the idea of Rules of Thumb (Amazon link).

There are 52 of Alan’s Rules in total. At first, I figured I would read one rule a week. But that did not happen. Each chapter is very engaging through stories that Alan tells and the underlying principle of each rule really makes you stop and think.

One of my favorite rules is “Don’t implement solutions. Prevent problems.” That has always been one of my mottos and Alan lays it out magnificently.

I’ll admit that not every rule got me excited about work and I don’t feel that every rule applied to me directly. But when 75% (at least) of a book hits home with you, that says a lot. This book is great at making you evaluate how you are approaching business and how you want to fit work into your life rather than making work your life. Highly recommended for anyone in business at any stage of the game.

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Trust Agents: A Book Review

There are a whole lot of people who know Chris Brogan and Julien Smith. They are both social media and trend experts who have joined forces to write Trust Agents, a book all about how to not only understand social media, but use it to enhance your online reputation.

There are a ton of social media books out there that try and tell you how to use online tools to get more business. But few of them talk about how to build your influence and earn trust. Sure, reputation is a big thing for social media experts, but trust is earned. And the premise of Trust Agents is not only how to earn trust, but also how to spread that trust into various online aspects and enhance your business model that way.

I’ll admit, I’ve read a lot of social media books out there. And the more I read, the more I realize I already know. When you’re immersed in the social media realm from a professional perspective every single day, it’s easy to pick up on things figure out what works and what doesn’t. And this book enhanced a lot of the things I already knew. But this book is truly great for two reasons:

1. It has all the essential information in one book. You could buy two or three books that touch on all the topics in Trust Agents, or you could just buy one. This one.

2. It’s excellent for consultants in that it provides illustrations on how to better educate your clients and give examples of things that you can use to further explain your strategies. Same goes for business owners.

If you’re new or experienced in social media, you’ll enjoy this book. You’ll probably learn a lot or at least get reinforcement for what you already know. I highly recommend it for anyone in business who works in social media or is thinking about it.

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Educating Esme: A Book Review & Contest

There are times when you find a book that is not only entertaining but inspiring too. I’ve found it with Educating Esme.

First a quick background. A few years ago, I volunteered to teach Sunday School at my Church in New York. I was given a textbook (which was horribly outdated at the time), a short “training” and told good luck. Being the type of person that I am (meaning I’m a Type A, very creative, incredibly anal person) I created an entire year’s worth of lesson plans, unusual activities and discussion points to get the kids talking about the subject and excited about God in general. That same group begged me to teach their class the next year (which consisted of 34 students ages 12 – 19) and I did. I loved it.

Educating Esme is a diary of a teacher’s first year. Esme is a fifth grade teacher in the Chicago City Schools and she documents her trials and triumphs in this riveting, well-written and fascinating book. There are moments of hilarity followed by moments of heartbreak as you follow Esme through the ups and downs of teaching a class with minimal support from her staff and those that just don’t “get” her or her teaching methods.

This book made me miss teaching horribly. It made me realize how really, truly great teachers are rare and hard to find. How they often are under appreciated and criticized for their unusual teaching methods that actually make their kids apply what they are learning to their everyday world rather than just passing a test. Education in the US is a major concern of mine and there are no easy solutions (as Esme beautifully portrays in her book) but it is something that I fight for in my children’s lives and in the world at large as well.

This book is great for new teachers (there’s even a guide and tip list for teachers who are new or experienced), parents and people who are just interested in the educational system in general. This book was originally published ten years ago, but not much has changed in the education system I’m afraid. Here is Esme’s take on the topic:

Q- Do you think the profession has changed since you wrote this diary?

Esme- The extreme to which educators “teach to the test” feels different today. Teachers seem to be held to a new level of stringency in terms of content, and the climate is more fearful due to the punitive responses when schools don’t perform up to standards. Who wants to work in a setting where the children and the teacher feel they can’t make mistakes or where they can’t use their imaginations?

Contrary to the belief of many third graders and public figures, most people don’t become teachers because they want to give tests. When the No Child Left Behind Act and all of the ensuing mania over high-stakes standardized testing came along, I sincerely tried to ignore it, to shut my door on it, but it has really intruded on the culture of education. If I were just starting out now, with things the way they are . . . well, I think I might have been discouraged from the career path altogether. It saddens me to see teachers I knew to be joyous and effective worn down like the nub of a number two pencil.

One blogger offhandedly referred to our national policy alternately as “No Teacher Left Teaching.” Even with our new president, there’s a lot of holdover in that attitude. I, for one, am happy to be accountable the day we decide accountability is not a synonym for success on standardized tests. Accountability means “that which can be explained.” In my own mind, then, accountability is a synonym for documentation. In other professions, like science, people are allowed to make mistakes, to have outcomes they don’t expect, to be creative in finding solutions. . . they just have to describe what happened, try to learn from it, and try to improve. Without this kind of leeway, the teacher corps will attract a very different kind of educator and our students will suffer. I also think it’s worthwhile to remember that most remarkable individuals in American history never took a standardized test, and there have been and will be many people who contribute positively who aren’t that good at filling in blanks. Instead they color outside the lines. But I am hopeful, because necessity is the mother of invention.

More teachers are starting to say, “Hey, you’re trying to make me work in a way that’s not allowing me to be effective with children.” And people are listening. I believe we’ll hit a tipping point, and something positive will come of all this.

You can read more of Esme’s interview on this site.

The book has been re-released for its 10th anniversary and to top it off, there’s a contest to go with this post!

Here’s what you have to do: Leave a comment on this post. Pretty simple, huh? Names will be drawn from all the the people leaving a comment on any of the posts from the book tour and those individuals will win a fabulous prize.

“And what’s in it for you Angela?” So glad you asked! I’ll be eligible for prizes too (yippee!) if this post gets a bit of social media attention. So I’m going to beg ask for your help.

Here’s what you can do to help me out:

Now, of course, if you scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours! So, if you do any of the things listed above, please note it in a comment below. Include all the things you do and I’ll select a winner a random to win a $25 Amazon Gift Card. You’ll get one entry per item (including just plain commenting). This contest runs until the end of September, so feel free social media-ize this post as much as you like. Happy Reading all!

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The Frog Prince: A Book Review

The Frog Prince was the first book by Jane Porter. And, in case you haven’t been paying attention, I’m a big fan of hers. Have you ever been dumped by the seemingly perfect guy? Ever gone on a bad date? How about a whole bunch of bad dates? Then you’ll probably relate to this book.

Holly seems to have it all. She’s married to this exotic French man who makes her world sparkle and then he drops the bomb on her: “I’m not in love with you like that.” On their honeymoon no less. Ouch.

So, Holly picks up and starts all over again. She has a job where she wants to get ahead and she has to find her way in the professional world where she has an intimidating boss and a lack of confidence. She has an apartment (which doesn’t compare to her home with her ex-husband) that she pays too much for. And she has a romantic side that maybe, just maybe, her Prince Charming is still out there.

Even though this was Jane’s first book, it is superb. I’m a big fan of “chick lit” and anything that can distract me from the stress of day-to-day life. And this book certainly did the trick. Just like all of her other books.

So, that’s all I have from Jane Porter for now. But why don’t you head over to Jane’s blog and tell her about these posts and tell her how much you love her books. Haven’t read them yet? Buy ‘em, read ‘em, love ‘em. Then tell her (and me) about it!

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Dump ‘Em: A Book Review

Hi, I’m Angela and I hate confrontation. (Hi Angela.) Yep. I hate confrontation. I avoid it all costs and I’d much rather suffer than find myself face-to-face with a discussion that is awkward and uncomfortable.

No, I didn’t really enjoy that obscene joke.

I’d rather you didn’t blow your grass onto my lawn when you mow.

I don’t think it would be a good idea for your daughter to babysit my kids.

No, I don’t think we’ll be scheduling another get-together soon or a play date.

To be honest, my food isn’t that great and it’s not even what I ordered.

These are typically not things that I say. Although, I admit, I am getting slightly (emphasis on slightly) better at it. I’m not the type of person to demand better service or refuse to pay for a haircut that looks awful. I’d much rather just smile and leave (and buy gel and a headband at the first drug store I find. True story) than cause a scene or have a confrontation.

Dump ‘Em is all about confrontations and how to do them. It’s a great book with some practical tips. And it’s hilarious. Not to mentiont hat it covers everyone. From neighbors to friends and hairdressers to accountants. There were certain parts of the book that made me realize that I’ve been avoiding a nasty confrontation that really had to happen in order to protect my sanity (I took the tips and it worked. Problem solved).

This is another book I wouldn’t necessarily read cover to cover but it is a good book that will make you laugh. And if you do read it all the way through, you’ll probably have a list of people that you really need to eliminate from your life for everyone’s sakes. I’m not saying that I’m ready to tackle my list. But I do have a short list. And when the time is right, I’ll Dump ‘Em.

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Easy on the Eyes: A Book Review

Ok, last post about Jane Porter… for now. Easy on the Eyes is the latest book by Jane Porter (who clearly is becoming one of my favorite writers).

So, track back to Odd Mom Out. That was where we met Marta. We were also introduced to her two best friends: Shey and Tiana. Tiana is the host of a wildly popular (and Emmy-winning) entertainment / celebrity gossip talk show.

But suddenly (and in a style reminiscent of Mrs. Perfect) Tiana comes to face-to-face with a younger co-host who appears to be eyeing Tiana’s job. After a tough life of losing her family and her husband to tragedies, she prides herself on being able to overcome anything.

But as Tiana continues to fight for her job, she begins to ponder a new question: Does she really want to keep it?

After reading three books now, I have no doubt that Jane Porter truly knows women. And she’s not limited in the types of women she can write about. Jane’s writing style is easy going and resonates with truth and depth. There’s nothing like a book that you stay up late to read and then get up early the next day to tackle another chapter before you head off to work. And that’s exactly what I did with all three of these books.

I promised no more posts… for now. So be prepared for a couple of other reviews coming up. But I wouldn’t be surprised to see a couple more Jane Porter book reviews before too much longer.

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Meeting Mr. Wrong – A Book Review

Ok, we’ve all been there. Well, maybe you haven’t but I know I have. You meet someone and it doesn’t seem right. Then you meet someone else and that doesn’t seem right. After a few of these adventures you begin to wonder if you’re a magnet for crazy people. And I really hope I’m not alone in this one.

We enter the scene of Meeting Mr. Wrong with the words “I never thought I would have to do this again.” Meet Stephanie Snowe who is launching herself (and that’s an almost literal phrase) back into the dating world. She records her real-life adventures in her book subtitled “The Romantic Misadventures of a Southern Belle.”

Stephanie has a writing tone that I can only describe as sassy. Lines like “I was especially not interested in cheating with married men due to my personal situation which involved my husband leaving me for a woman who was not only married to someone else but also had a really ugly Billy Ray Cyrus mullet and inner-thigh tattoos” left me shaking my head and re-reading them twice just to make sure I read it right.

The book had me laughing out loud. Especially the part where she writes the personal ad that kicks of her new dating career. Bound and determined to find the perfect man for her, Stephanie braves date after date with all sorts of characters that you’d think you can only find in romantic comedies. But Stephanie found them in real life.

This book is an excellent gift for a girlfriend who needs a pick-me-up and a good laugh. I will definitely be reading more of Stephanie’s works in the future.

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Tribes: A Book Review

This month, I’ll be focusing reviews on business-related items. I’ve been reading a ton of business books lately and so I figured dedicating a whole month to it would be a good idea.

Today, we’re starting off with Tribes by Seth Godin. Seth is revered by many to be a marketing genius. His blog is read by tons of people everyday and he’s definitely a breath of fresh air in what can be an extremely stale industry. He talks about doing things differently. Not just things that you haven’t tried before, but things that you never considered doing before either. I first heard Seth speak at an SES Conference (Search Engine Strategies) in Chicago in 2007. His book, Meatball Sundae had just been released and he was talking about what marketers were doing wrong. Then he took it one step further and said what they should be doing instead.

Tribes is no different. The whole concept is the difference between managing and leading. At least that’s what I got out of it. Like most of Seth’s books, it’s short and to the point. He breaks down his concept of Tribes (and the leaders of those Tribes) via case studies, pointed stories, and easy steps to accomplish tasks. Here is an example:

It’s uncomfortable to stand up in front of strangers.

It’s uncomfortable to propose an idea that might fail.

It’s uncomfortable to challenge the status quo.

It’s uncomfortable to resist the urge to settle.

When you identify the discomfort, you’ve found the place where a leader is needed.

His insights are always based in his experiences and while there are some theories of his sprinkled throughout the book, most of them made sense to me. And that’s saying a lot since I’m just now really pushing my business side of myself into high gear. Seth has a very candid way of discussing business, marketing and various industries. His books always leave me thinking about where I can grow as a business woman and where I need to improve. I recommend this book for anyone who is thinking of starting a business or feels stagnant in their current situation.

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Beyond Belief: A Book Review

I’ve mentioned this book before, but it really is deserving of its own post. I’m a huge fan of comeback stories and Beyond Belief is quite a story. I didn’t much at all about Josh Hamilton until he made his comeback into baseball. I first heard bits and pieces of his story during the Homerun Derby of this past season. I was intrigued.

Then I was given an opportunity to read the book. I jumped at the chance. Josh Hamilton, if you didn’t know, was an athletic phenomenon; he was recruited out of high school to join MLB in the minors. He was a good, wholesome kid. Raised with strong values and loyal to his family. But then, things started to happen.

He started trying drugs and tattooing his whole body. He knew that he was sinking into an abyss but he couldn’t stop. Soon he was addicted to crack cocaine. He was running out of money, respect and time. All of his energy and efforts went to finding more drugs. Alienating his entire family including his wife and daughter, he searched for answers and didn’t find any. He failed drug test after drug test and was soon one failed test away from being banned from baseball for life.

He finally hit bottom and started looking for help. It wasn’t easy. He went through lots of tough times. He was accompanyed everywhere because he didn’t trust himself. But he started to come back out of the fog, a little bit at a time. He continues to struggle but everyday gets easier.

Josh details the downward spiral and the uphill battle in this book. It’s an excellent read for anyone like sports or comeback stories.

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