Praying Together

This weekend I spoke at a couple of Mother / Daughter Teas.  At each of the events I had the moms and their daughters at the end of our time together join hands and pray together.  I asked the moms to pray for their daughters, then, I asked the daughters to pray for their moms.praying girls

When this idea first came out of my mouth, as I was telling them what we were about to do I have a few strange looks, but as I looked up after doing this with the second group of girls, ages 13-18, I saw several girls and their moms with tears in their eyes.  The act of praying together, moms, is so powerful.

I had started by telling them that I had been in a conversation the week prior where my friends and I were discussing what to do when we just couldn’t not make ourselves like someone.  One of the my friends suggested to the other, “pray for her”.  She said, “I did it once and found it was difficult to dislike someone I was praying for”.  So, I suggested this idea to the moms and daughters at the tea, because as moms and daughters, or humans in general often times we come to a point where we just don’t like each other.  And, therefore, if you’re praying for each other, well, that will be more difficult to do.

Not only that but prayer is a strengthening bond that will not only bond the two of you together but the two of you with God.  To me there is nothing bad about that.

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The Special Bond

There’s just something about having a baby girl. I”m not exactly sure what it is, trust me I love my first born, a son, more than anything, but my daughter well she and I just have something special. Sure, she’s only 15 months old now, but already I know our relationship will be an important one in both of our lives. At least that is what I hope for, since I have that special relationship with my mom, and my mom has it with hers, and her mom had it with hers. It’s a generational thing that I hope will continue down the line.

Mom / Daughter RelationshipI can only imagine the memories we will share throughout the years. Right now, she merely loves to sit with me in the recliner right beside me as she drinks her morning sippy cup of milk, or cuddling in bed. Later, I”m sure it’ll be sitting with me as I put on my makeup, wanting some of her own as I used to with my mom, or sharing ice cream after a first date that ended less perfect than expected. Late night chats about her first love, wiping of tears when he breaks her heart, even proud moments like when she aces her history test or walks the aisle to accept Jesus as her Savior. All these things I look forward to, with anticipation.

What about you, do you have a relationship with your daughter that pulls at your heartstrings? Is this something you experienced as a child or something you are being sure to create for your daughter because it was something you lacked???

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Mother / Daughter Bonding Activities

As moms we all want to “bond” with our children, but what about when they start to get older and we struggle to “connect or bond” with them? What’s a mom to do? The following are a few mother/daughter bonding activities you might do with your daughter:horseback riding

1. Horseback Riding – So, maybe you’re an avid rider or maybe you’ve never been on a horse in your life, either way it could be a fun experience for the two of you.

2. Manicures and Pedicures – What could be better than spending time together getting pampered, plus you’ll walk away with pretty pinkies and toesies. pedicure

3. Dinner & a Movie - Much like a date with your husband a dinner and a movie date with your daughter especially to see the latest chick flick can be just the ticket to creating some lasting memories with her.

4. A Slumber party- You might be thinking, “but she sleeps at our house every night”. Well, not with popcornpopcorn, goodies, a movie, PJs, sleeping bags, and a pillow fight in the living room floor, just the two of you. It could be tons of fun and will bring you back to childhood or the teenage years yourself.

5. Road Trip – If finances will allow why not take your daughter on a weekend getaway or maybe even just one overnight just the two of you. You could do an endless number of things from exploring a local tourist attraction to shopping all the cool stores at the newest mall within 100 miles of home. Whatever you choose you and your daughter will be making memories.

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Potty Talk

pottyThere are many of you moms out there who will read this title and thing, “potty training” and though I am not far away from having to train child #2 I am not quite ready to talk about it. Instead this post is going to throw you off guard a lot. It is about having conversations in the potty, the bathroom, the restroom whatever you want to or do call it.

You see when I was growing up I had a close relationship with my mom, still do, so much so that I followed her around the house talking to her most of the time. So much that when I moved out after getting married she was depresssed due to my absense. It was a difficult time for us.

Nevertheless, our time together was special. Over the years we had a bunch of “potty talks”. I sat on the potty as she bathed, or put her makeup on, or fixed her hair, or shaved her legs and I talked. I tend to be a talker, so I talked alot, but all the while these conversations were shaping our relationship, strengthening it, giving us a bond, a connection.

So, for me, potty talk was a great part of my life. How about you, do you and your daughter have “potty talks”? Maybe it is not the same, but it is something you do together that connects you….leave us a comment letting us know what it is.

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