The Aloha Quilt: A Book Review

Aloha Quilt CoverI’m a big fan of Jennifer Chiaverini and her Elm Creek Quilts series. I’ve been known to quilt here and there (but certainly not as much as I would like to) and the thing I like about it most is the community feel of the activity; it tends to be more fun to work on a quilt with other people especially if you are making a quilt by hand.

Jennifer does an excellent job of showcasing the quilt craft as an art form as well as the women in her stories who create them. The thing I like about Jennifer’s books is that you never know which direction she’s going to take her next story. She likes to jump back and forth between eras (such as present day and the Civil War period) and she also changes which character she focuses on each time.

I’ve read all of the Elm Creek Series so far, so when I saw that she had a new book called The Aloha Quilt, (Amazon Link) I pre-ordered it. I was thrilled that it showed up just before I left for vacation to Ireland. I look forward to the main character’s struggle and how they address it. I love how the women join together to help the main character and I appreciate the insights as they find the solution.

This particular book revolves around Bonnie who is going through a nasty divorce and needs some relief. She heads to Hawaii to help a friend set up a quilt camp very similar to Elm Creek Quilts and tries to sort out her life and what she wants. Throw in a crazy soon-t0-be-ex-husband and you’ve got a pretty good, easy read.

Jennifer is a talented writer and I recommend this series if you like “chick books” or anything that revolves around crafting in general. Be sure to start with The Elm Creek Quilts Sampler which is the first three books in the series and you’ll be on your way (Amazon Link).

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Trust Agents: A Book Review

There are a whole lot of people who know Chris Brogan and Julien Smith. They are both social media and trend experts who have joined forces to write Trust Agents, a book all about how to not only understand social media, but use it to enhance your online reputation.

There are a ton of social media books out there that try and tell you how to use online tools to get more business. But few of them talk about how to build your influence and earn trust. Sure, reputation is a big thing for social media experts, but trust is earned. And the premise of Trust Agents is not only how to earn trust, but also how to spread that trust into various online aspects and enhance your business model that way.

I’ll admit, I’ve read a lot of social media books out there. And the more I read, the more I realize I already know. When you’re immersed in the social media realm from a professional perspective every single day, it’s easy to pick up on things figure out what works and what doesn’t. And this book enhanced a lot of the things I already knew. But this book is truly great for two reasons:

1. It has all the essential information in one book. You could buy two or three books that touch on all the topics in Trust Agents, or you could just buy one. This one.

2. It’s excellent for consultants in that it provides illustrations on how to better educate your clients and give examples of things that you can use to further explain your strategies. Same goes for business owners.

If you’re new or experienced in social media, you’ll enjoy this book. You’ll probably learn a lot or at least get reinforcement for what you already know. I highly recommend it for anyone in business who works in social media or is thinking about it.

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This is Not How I Thought it Would Be: A Book Review

I was sent This is Not How I Thought it Would Be: Remodeling Motherhood to Get the Lives We Want Today by Kristin Maschka. (Sidenote: I LOVE getting books in the mail. It’s just like Christmas!) I was actually in the middle of another book but picked this one up on a whim and read the first page. Every word was something that I could identify with. So I kept reading. And reading. And, well, you get the idea.

Kristin Maschka has written a book about her struggles as a new mother and figuring out what her role was supposed to be. She struggled (just as I did) to feel at ease being predominantly focused on being a mom. She traded in a corporate job to stay home with her daughter but felt that the work at home was being unevenly divided. She had a hard time dealing with her new identity and with the guilt of those feelings on top of that.

Boy can I relate.

I couldn’t understand why I wasn’t over the moon with my new role and daily duties and I didn’t know why I kept fighting with my husband. The never ending guilt and frustration plagued me every day. And it plagued Kristin too. So she wrote a book about how to make it better.

Kristin talked a lot about Mind Maps and how they affect our perceptions on things. Here are a few:

  • Moms who work are selfish
  • Moms who stay home are not cultured or intelligent
  • Moms should be the primary caregiver because they’re naturally better at it
  • Dads who work shouldn’t have to do any of the house work duties when the moms stay home

I’ll admit it; I struggled with this book. Clearly, I have very defined Mind Maps that dictate my perceptions in this arena. But it’s made me stop and think. I won’t give too much away but if you’re feeling overwhelmed by your new role as a mother or know someone who is, grab this book. It’s written in a thought-provoking way to make you evaluate how you truly view motherhood and gives you tools to change things if you decide you need to.

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Educating Esme: A Book Review & Contest

There are times when you find a book that is not only entertaining but inspiring too. I’ve found it with Educating Esme.

First a quick background. A few years ago, I volunteered to teach Sunday School at my Church in New York. I was given a textbook (which was horribly outdated at the time), a short “training” and told good luck. Being the type of person that I am (meaning I’m a Type A, very creative, incredibly anal person) I created an entire year’s worth of lesson plans, unusual activities and discussion points to get the kids talking about the subject and excited about God in general. That same group begged me to teach their class the next year (which consisted of 34 students ages 12 – 19) and I did. I loved it.

Educating Esme is a diary of a teacher’s first year. Esme is a fifth grade teacher in the Chicago City Schools and she documents her trials and triumphs in this riveting, well-written and fascinating book. There are moments of hilarity followed by moments of heartbreak as you follow Esme through the ups and downs of teaching a class with minimal support from her staff and those that just don’t “get” her or her teaching methods.

This book made me miss teaching horribly. It made me realize how really, truly great teachers are rare and hard to find. How they often are under appreciated and criticized for their unusual teaching methods that actually make their kids apply what they are learning to their everyday world rather than just passing a test. Education in the US is a major concern of mine and there are no easy solutions (as Esme beautifully portrays in her book) but it is something that I fight for in my children’s lives and in the world at large as well.

This book is great for new teachers (there’s even a guide and tip list for teachers who are new or experienced), parents and people who are just interested in the educational system in general. This book was originally published ten years ago, but not much has changed in the education system I’m afraid. Here is Esme’s take on the topic:

Q- Do you think the profession has changed since you wrote this diary?

Esme- The extreme to which educators “teach to the test” feels different today. Teachers seem to be held to a new level of stringency in terms of content, and the climate is more fearful due to the punitive responses when schools don’t perform up to standards. Who wants to work in a setting where the children and the teacher feel they can’t make mistakes or where they can’t use their imaginations?

Contrary to the belief of many third graders and public figures, most people don’t become teachers because they want to give tests. When the No Child Left Behind Act and all of the ensuing mania over high-stakes standardized testing came along, I sincerely tried to ignore it, to shut my door on it, but it has really intruded on the culture of education. If I were just starting out now, with things the way they are . . . well, I think I might have been discouraged from the career path altogether. It saddens me to see teachers I knew to be joyous and effective worn down like the nub of a number two pencil.

One blogger offhandedly referred to our national policy alternately as “No Teacher Left Teaching.” Even with our new president, there’s a lot of holdover in that attitude. I, for one, am happy to be accountable the day we decide accountability is not a synonym for success on standardized tests. Accountability means “that which can be explained.” In my own mind, then, accountability is a synonym for documentation. In other professions, like science, people are allowed to make mistakes, to have outcomes they don’t expect, to be creative in finding solutions. . . they just have to describe what happened, try to learn from it, and try to improve. Without this kind of leeway, the teacher corps will attract a very different kind of educator and our students will suffer. I also think it’s worthwhile to remember that most remarkable individuals in American history never took a standardized test, and there have been and will be many people who contribute positively who aren’t that good at filling in blanks. Instead they color outside the lines. But I am hopeful, because necessity is the mother of invention.

More teachers are starting to say, “Hey, you’re trying to make me work in a way that’s not allowing me to be effective with children.” And people are listening. I believe we’ll hit a tipping point, and something positive will come of all this.

You can read more of Esme’s interview on this site.

The book has been re-released for its 10th anniversary and to top it off, there’s a contest to go with this post!

Here’s what you have to do: Leave a comment on this post. Pretty simple, huh? Names will be drawn from all the the people leaving a comment on any of the posts from the book tour and those individuals will win a fabulous prize.

“And what’s in it for you Angela?” So glad you asked! I’ll be eligible for prizes too (yippee!) if this post gets a bit of social media attention. So I’m going to beg ask for your help.

Here’s what you can do to help me out:

Now, of course, if you scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours! So, if you do any of the things listed above, please note it in a comment below. Include all the things you do and I’ll select a winner a random to win a $25 Amazon Gift Card. You’ll get one entry per item (including just plain commenting). This contest runs until the end of September, so feel free social media-ize this post as much as you like. Happy Reading all!

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The Frog Prince: A Book Review

The Frog Prince was the first book by Jane Porter. And, in case you haven’t been paying attention, I’m a big fan of hers. Have you ever been dumped by the seemingly perfect guy? Ever gone on a bad date? How about a whole bunch of bad dates? Then you’ll probably relate to this book.

Holly seems to have it all. She’s married to this exotic French man who makes her world sparkle and then he drops the bomb on her: “I’m not in love with you like that.” On their honeymoon no less. Ouch.

So, Holly picks up and starts all over again. She has a job where she wants to get ahead and she has to find her way in the professional world where she has an intimidating boss and a lack of confidence. She has an apartment (which doesn’t compare to her home with her ex-husband) that she pays too much for. And she has a romantic side that maybe, just maybe, her Prince Charming is still out there.

Even though this was Jane’s first book, it is superb. I’m a big fan of “chick lit” and anything that can distract me from the stress of day-to-day life. And this book certainly did the trick. Just like all of her other books.

So, that’s all I have from Jane Porter for now. But why don’t you head over to Jane’s blog and tell her about these posts and tell her how much you love her books. Haven’t read them yet? Buy ‘em, read ‘em, love ‘em. Then tell her (and me) about it!

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Flirting with Forty: A Book Review

I know, I know. I promised I would lay off on the Jane Porter book reviews. But I couldn’t help it! After reading Odd Mom Out, Mrs. Perfect and Easy on the Eyes, I HAD to buy Jane’s other two books. I couldn’t help it. So two more posts and then I’m done. I swear. At least until Jane comes out with some new books.

Have you ever been at a crossroads? A moment where you look at your life and think “what next?” or “is this where I really want to be?” That’s the theme of Flirting with Forty. But it’s also more than that. It’s about embracing where you’re at in life and then rebelling against it at the same time. Tough to do, I know. But I also know it’s possible.

Perhaps this book resonated with me because I’ve been recently going through my own moments of “what do I really want to do from here” type of thing. Granted, I’m not forty (I’ll be thirty next year) but I still can identify with the concept.

Here’s the bottom line: Jane knows how to write about women. I get frustrated with books (especially books written by women) who don’t seem to convey the inner struggles we go through on an hourly basis. But Jane has a way of capturing her characters in a manner that allows me to identify with them and then I get inspired based on the good and bad decisions they make from there. I feel more inclined to look for my next adventure rather than waiting for it to find me. Because that’s a common theme that her characters go through.

So just one more (look for my review on The Frog Prince on Monday) and then you’ll just have to wait for another review until Jane publishes her next book.

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Dump ‘Em: A Book Review

Hi, I’m Angela and I hate confrontation. (Hi Angela.) Yep. I hate confrontation. I avoid it all costs and I’d much rather suffer than find myself face-to-face with a discussion that is awkward and uncomfortable.

No, I didn’t really enjoy that obscene joke.

I’d rather you didn’t blow your grass onto my lawn when you mow.

I don’t think it would be a good idea for your daughter to babysit my kids.

No, I don’t think we’ll be scheduling another get-together soon or a play date.

To be honest, my food isn’t that great and it’s not even what I ordered.

These are typically not things that I say. Although, I admit, I am getting slightly (emphasis on slightly) better at it. I’m not the type of person to demand better service or refuse to pay for a haircut that looks awful. I’d much rather just smile and leave (and buy gel and a headband at the first drug store I find. True story) than cause a scene or have a confrontation.

Dump ‘Em is all about confrontations and how to do them. It’s a great book with some practical tips. And it’s hilarious. Not to mentiont hat it covers everyone. From neighbors to friends and hairdressers to accountants. There were certain parts of the book that made me realize that I’ve been avoiding a nasty confrontation that really had to happen in order to protect my sanity (I took the tips and it worked. Problem solved).

This is another book I wouldn’t necessarily read cover to cover but it is a good book that will make you laugh. And if you do read it all the way through, you’ll probably have a list of people that you really need to eliminate from your life for everyone’s sakes. I’m not saying that I’m ready to tackle my list. But I do have a short list. And when the time is right, I’ll Dump ‘Em.

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Four Seasons – The Story of a Business Philosophy: A Book Review

I’ve written before about brands and how impactful they (see my review on Married to the Brand). Brands are powerful. Brands are what we conjur in our minds when we hear something like Coca-Cola, Calvin Klein and Carnival. It’s the immediate impression we get when we order our favorite coffee, stop by our favorite clothing store or splurge on that chocolate that we love more than life itself.

Now think luxury. What do you imagine when you think of pure luxury? How does a brand become synonymous with something as wonderfully romantic as luxury?

Without a doubt, one of the first brands I think of when I hear the phrase “luxury hotel” is Four Seasons. I have had the pleasure of staying at a Four Seasons before and it is pure luxury. But how did it get to that point?

Mr. Isadore Sharp, the founder of Four Seasons has written a book about the branding process of his hotels called Four Seasons: The Story of a Business Philosophy. I’ll be honest, I had no idea what he had to go through to get the brand where it is today. I also had no clue what kind of a pioneer he was. Things that I completely take for granted in any hotel like comfortable beds and shampoo in the rooms was started by Mr. Sharp and the Four Seasons. Surprised? So was I.

The personal story of Isadore Sharp was also fascinating. I had very little knowledge about the man behind the brand so to learn of his family life and his altruistic side was heart warming and endearing. Not only is he a brilliant entrepreneur, but he is a kind man who wants his employees to be happy and successful. Just reading this list of Isadore Sharp quotes makes you want to work for someone like him.

The entire book is extremely well written and engaging. You can tell he poured his heart into his brand and wants everyone to love Four Seasons as much as he does. I highly recommend it for entrepreneurs and business professionals as well as those who just enjoy a good biography.

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The Momnificent Life: A Book Review

It seems these days that every mom is looking for balance. I know exactly what balance is. It’s that thing that I pass as I swing from one extreme to another.

And there are tons of books out there about “balanced living” and especially “balanced living for moms.” I admit it. I’ve picked up a few (no, really, just a few!) here and there along the way, but I’ll be honest. None of them ever really got my attention and said “yes! this is the answer you’ve been looking for.”

So when I got the opportunity to review The Momnificent Life, I was skeptical. Most of the books I’ve read had the exact same premise: prioritize, slow down, take care of yourself and set boundaries. Practical? Yes. Motivational? Sometimes. Am I still doing it? No.

I found myself asking why. And while reading this book, I figured it out. The books I had been reading were primarily reactive. Feeling stressed? Calm down. Feeling tired? Live healthier. Ah, yes. Why didn’t I think of that?

I’m a positive blogger, so I prefer to be proactive rather than reactive. Yes, these processes and “tricks” will help me live a more peaceful life, but how can it impact others? Cue The Momnificent Life.

This book is all about being more positive (through a variety of self-awareness exercises and practical applications for daily life) and therefore make a great impact on the world around you. And it covers everything. Seriously. Everything. From financial issues and job satisfaction to dealing with past issues from your life and eliminating clutter from your physical, mental and emotional worlds.

It’s my blog in a book. I loved it.

If you’re looking for a book that will truly help you (and more than a self-help book that only looks at you and not the world around you), pick this one. Lori is a fantastic and engaging writer who really knows what it takes to live a full, healthy and non-crazed life.

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Easy on the Eyes: A Book Review

Ok, last post about Jane Porter… for now. Easy on the Eyes is the latest book by Jane Porter (who clearly is becoming one of my favorite writers).

So, track back to Odd Mom Out. That was where we met Marta. We were also introduced to her two best friends: Shey and Tiana. Tiana is the host of a wildly popular (and Emmy-winning) entertainment / celebrity gossip talk show.

But suddenly (and in a style reminiscent of Mrs. Perfect) Tiana comes to face-to-face with a younger co-host who appears to be eyeing Tiana’s job. After a tough life of losing her family and her husband to tragedies, she prides herself on being able to overcome anything.

But as Tiana continues to fight for her job, she begins to ponder a new question: Does she really want to keep it?

After reading three books now, I have no doubt that Jane Porter truly knows women. And she’s not limited in the types of women she can write about. Jane’s writing style is easy going and resonates with truth and depth. There’s nothing like a book that you stay up late to read and then get up early the next day to tackle another chapter before you head off to work. And that’s exactly what I did with all three of these books.

I promised no more posts… for now. So be prepared for a couple of other reviews coming up. But I wouldn’t be surprised to see a couple more Jane Porter book reviews before too much longer.

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